Understanding the Nature of Consciousness
We represent the Ultimate Paradox of human life, which is to be in this world but not of it, accessing the Source of All Life as Love.
Paradox was founded on a Universal approach to True Happiness. We use validated knowledge, practices and principles that lead the individual to the realization of Existence beyond duality. Whether the student applies the path of the mind or the way of the heart, the result is the same: the revelation of Truth which is self-evident by its very nature.
Stop & Smell the Roses 🌹
The first step in coming back to Self. Weekly online meetings. Educational, fun, and full of Friendship.
1 on 1 Mentoring
For those needing closer attention. If you have a specific “sticking point,” goal, or need for confidentiality, this path might be a good fit.
Meet the Founder of Paradox
Ben Fama (Narayana) founded Paradox to help people. He has dedicated his life to the search for Truth within himself and others. His role extends beyond his professional work with Paradox. He enjoys travel, new experiences, reading, meditating, exercise and everything “good” that life has to offer. He lives in America and spends significant time in Brazil and India.
His real education was a gift that was given and involves no diplomas, institutions or degrees. However, in the world he holds a Bachelor of Science (B.S.) from Cornell University, an Associate of Science (A.S.) from Johnson & Wales University, a Postgraduate Specialization in Culture of Purpose and Regenerative Leadership from Florescentia in partnership with Centro Universitário Cidade Verde (UniCV) in Brazil, and a Certificate in Yoga Philosophy from Dev Sanskriti University in Haridwar, India.
You can read his blog, Writings by Narayana, here.
Life is Paradox. We are separate yet exist as the same Whole. To live as such reveals the Mystery of Existence Itself.
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Our Philosophy
Path of the Mind
The Path of the Mind is really the path of “no-mind,” with the aim of going beyond thinkingness and thought altogether. Traditionally taught as “non-duality,” it involves elevated knowledge, meditation, contemplation and the like. Consciousness expands primarily through a process of “negation” – the student says, “I’m not that; I’m not that; I’m not that…” until pure consciousness remains. The Void is then filled with Love as its Source and Essence.
Way of the Heart
In this case, the heart does not represent romance, emotionality, greeting cards or even the physical heart. It represents instead that quality of devotion towards Life in all its expressions. A Heart-felt lovingness that goes beyond the mind, human love or even form itself. The inner love of Love Itself must be strong and cultivated continuously, through prayer or selfless service, until one becomes that very Love. It is the path of “supplication,” where love and devotion replaces that which it is not.
“This is fun. You are a very engaging facilitator and have composed a delightful curriculum with depth and structure.”
— Rose Gabriel, Hawaii
A noteworthy paradox in human life is that one must surrender to win.
Key Programs
Stop & Smell the Roses 🌹
Regular group meetings allow us to “stop and smell the roses.” This allows us to return to what spirituality often refers to as the “present moment.” Knowledge, tools, and principles are shared to facilitate the learning progress, which is really an un-learning or remembering process. Friendship, connection and laughter are welcomed and encouraged!
1 on 1 Mentoring
Ben offers individual mentoring for students who need specialized attention or have specific needs that are better addressed in the context of a 1 on 1 session. These sessions vary from “one-off” to a few months, based on that individual’s specific needs.
Partnerships
Are you already a leader or teacher? Do you have groups of students, colleagues or friends who need guidance, insight or new perspectives? Paradox partners and works with individuals and groups beyond our own in-house programs. It is a “need-based” approach, where we will understand the necessities of your audience and custom-tailor a program, course or retreat for your specific needs. Get in touch with us to find out if it might be a good fit. We are here to serve!
Turning inwards reveals the True Nature of all human life, that even what we label as “bad,” “wrong,” or “unfortunate” is really just misguided Love.
Case Studies
Andreas Conrad
Colorado
“I did not know the way. I was so wound up that I didn’t know what needed to happen (or how). I don’t know your story. Nor do I expect it will be like mine. But what I do know is that for me, I am happy. The type of happiness that comes from some wholeness. Knowing that I’m 100% in control of my life (for what I can control). And for everything else, I know that my co-pilot (the universe) has it covered.”
Taylor Sherman
Virginia
“Ben wants to get to the core of your internal journey so you can align with your purpose and access more of your potential. My work with Ben started with a set of fuzzy outcomes, that soon were specific and actionable goals. Each week we were working on business, but also something deeper—uncovering what was important, releasing stagnant energy, and pursuing long-term fulfillment.”
Rose Gabriel
Hawaii
“Ben presents diverse, comprehensive and well arranged content in an intelligent and enthusiastic manner. I throughly enjoyed his online class and gained insight as well as tools applicable for ongoing personal inquiry. I recommend his offerings to my students and colleagues.”
Alok
Brazil
“The Paradox mentorship opened a space for me to see a contradiction within myself, in the way I was trying to move in the world. I realized I was trying to bring my work to the world from a place that wasn’t true—and this brought about a profound change of direction. Ben, with great sensitivity and presence, knew how to listen to me and share his experiences and insights. In a welcoming way, he led me to a place of greater tranquility and clarity regarding the next steps.”
Writings by Narayana
Get in Touch
If you’d like to contact us, please write to hello@paradoxself.com.
We look forward to hearing from you!